The theory goes that men aren’t supposed to like romance, but more and more of them are coming out of their shell to admit that yes, they want to be wooed from time to time too. It doesn’t have to be big, it just needs to be personal “the type and nature of the gesture is more important than the size, if it’s somehow related to something that they value, that’s more impactful.”
These 11 things are likely to get him more attached to you;
1. Changing your outfit:
If there’s one thing to keep in mind about men, it’s that they are visually oriented, that’s why dressing for his tastes rather than just your own every once in a while can have a big effect. When he comments on how great that shirt looks on you, tuck the idea away so you can pair it with skinny jeans for your next date . Or take him on a short shopping trip and have him choose outfits he would like to see you in, or some lingerie he finds sexy. It’s not likely he’ll be interested in shopping for long, but the fact that he gets to choose (so keep an open mind for as long as you can) could keep him engaged for longer than you might think.
2. Getting handy:
This isn’t about sex or a massage (though there’s nothing wrong with cashing in on both of those), but simply touching and showing physical affection in your day-to-day activities. Holding hands when you walk down the street are reassuring actions especially if the love language is touch and can remind him that you love and appreciate his body. And if you decide to explore elsewhere, it can give you time to become more aroused and really get to know every part of him.
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3. Sending him out with the guys:
A guy’s time with his friends is just as important as your girls’ nights out, and acknowledging that makes you look like an independent, confident, insanely sexy woman. So if he’s waffling on whether he really should go catch that game with the guys, encourage him to.
4. Sneaking in a flirty note:
Sometimes a man likes to hear that he’s loved and missed. Corny as it sounds, if the woman puts a note in his briefcase or bag, or sends a text during work just to say how much she’s looking forward to having sex that night, it can really make a guy’s day.Easy enough, no?
5. Complimenting him:
Just like you need reassurance every once in a while, so does he. So next time you’re noticing how sexy his forearms look while he’s doing something, tell him. Sure, they’re just words but to him that can be solid gold when he’s been having a bad day. Confused on how to compliment him? This will help; 11 Sure Compliments Men Love That Will Spice Up Your Relationship
6. Framing a picture:
In this mostly-digital age, printing photos is becoming less and less common. By taking a few extra minutes to print that cute snap from last weekend’s date night, you’re showing how much that memory means to you and it just might encourage the both of you to make more. Plus, there’s just something nice about looking at a framed photo these days, don’t you think?
7. Switching up sex:
If you’re in the habit of having sex with the lights out, keep them on. Do it in a different room (or a different place altogether). Whatever your usual routine is, break it. Novelty can immediately infuse romance back into a relationship, and if he has some say-so about it, then he feels like his voice is being heard. The easiest way to make sure he knows you’re listening: Talk about his sexual fantasies as long as they don’t make you uncomfortable, it might be fun to make one or two come to life. Not sure where to start? Here are; 16 Ways To Sexually Tease You Spouse
8. Having an experience:
What would you rather receive from your guy? Experiential gifts tend to have more meaning behind them, why? They help you create memories, plain and simple. So when you’re thinking about gifts, try thinking of something that the two of you can enjoy together, like exploring a new-to-you place or watching a football team you both love. Whether it’s out of the blue or totally expected doesn’t matter, at the end of the day, he’ll just be stoked to get out of the house with you.
9. Telling him a secret:
Women aren’t the only ones that want to feel like they’re not wasting their time in a relationship. Feeling connected with you in a way that he isn’t with anyone else is important to guys, so confess something nobody else knows. It shows a deeper level of trust in both him and your relationship, because you’re making yourself vulnerable. And if you want it to go both ways, make it a pseudo-game: For every secret you tell, he confesses one, too.
10. Getting him to laugh with you:
Chances are you know what makes your man laugh. You wouldn’t live a life devoid of laughter and humor, right? But even if you’re not a master comedian or a jokester, get this: a good way to gauge your romance levels is to laugh together, the more times a guy makes a woman laugh the more she’s into him, which in turn, leads to romance. Laughter is important! So maybe catch a comedy show, or even just fire up online to watch a new comedian’s special. If you have a sense of humor, you’ll probably laugh, and he’ll be inspired to show off his renditions of those one-liners. Maybe you’ll end up with some new inside jokes, too.
11. Learning about something that interests him:
Does your partner dig computer science? Is he really into old movies? Is he obsessed with history for some reason? Do a little digging about something that doesn’t feel like pulling teeth for you (no one will ever force you to be someone you’re not) and learn about something he’s super passionate about. He’ll appreciate that you’re taking an interest in a topic that’s important to him, and it can certainly fuel conversations. If your partner’s a half-decent guy (and I’m sure he is), it may motivate him to learn about one of your quirky interests, too.
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