So you’d like to make that conversation so nice that he/she will be blushing all day long, make sure you master these questions. They work like magic! Magic I say!! But then again, be smart in the order in which you send them in so as not to look confused or reading from a script.. Hopefully, this makes your conversation so lovely that he or she will be so impressed..
- What was your first impression of me?
How accurate do you now think it was? On which counts do you think you were totally wrong and on which were you right?
What is your idea of a truly romantic evening.
If I promise not to get upset, can you tell me something that you’d like to change about me but don’t have the nerve to tell me?
- If you weren’t in the profession you are, what would be your other dream profession and why?
Apart from the most obvious one, which other two areas of your body are the most sensitive and responsive?
Which three parts of my body are your personal favourites and why?
Can you name three qualities that attracted you when you met me/got to know me?
Where is your dream destination and why?
What is your favourite movie of all time and favourite scene in it? (If the other hasn’t seen it, narrate in detail)
Can you remember your earliest childhood memories of happiness and fear?
Your favourite aunt/uncle/cousin and why?
What are the qualities that draw you to people that you can base a friendship on?
Can you narrate to me how you would discuss sex education when you have a child?
Your first crush, what drew you to her/him?
Your first date, where did you go, what did you do and how long did the relationship last?
How have you coped with break-ups in the past?
What has been your scariest dream and your most frequently recurring one?
What is the best decision you’ve ever made?
What decision do you regret the most?
Can you tell me your proudest moment?
If you won the lottery, what are the first three things you would do and the five things you’ve been most longing for to buy?
If your house was on fire and you had a chance to grab only five things before leaving, what would they be?
If you were asked whom you would like to be born again as what would your answer be?
What is your favourite flavour of ice cream, junk food and dessert?
Whose wardrobe would you most likely to possess if opportuned and why?
What is the one argument your parents had that you would try to avoid with your partner?
What is your favourite body part in a man/woman and why?
What is the most embarrassing moment of your life?
Your most wicked fantasy has got to be? (Be open to this one, if you react adversely, he/she will never feel free to confide in you again.)
If our relationship doesn’t work out, do you think we can remain friends? If no, why not?
Who are you closer to, your mum/dad and why?
What are your favourite songs of all time and why, is it because of the lyrics or the memories associated with it or just the whole package?
If somebody handed you a magic lamp and gave you three wishes, what would they be?
What upsets you most in a relationship and what makes you the happiest?
What is your perception of how people see you?
If someone told you they saw me with another lady/guy, what would your first reaction be, she’s cheating on me, he’s probably an old friend or I need to get to the bottom of this?
Can you think of something you craved for when you were young and was denied?
Have you ever found yourself attracted to someone of the same sex?
What are your future plans?
Note! Don’t be judgmental of the responses you get, and try and be truthful when answering. This can be a wonderful way to just have fun or really get to know your partner. It will equally help strengthen the bond.
Hint: Singles can also start using this questions during their Chat. Did it help?