This goes to the ladies especially, although guys can take a queue from this as well. No knowledge should be a waste after all, although most of us may be conversant with this theory.
Now there is a certain notion that when it comes to a relationship, the spending should be mainly done by the man. I mean come on, where does it say it should be this way and trust me some ladies can be a pest! Not that you can’t ask for stuff but certainly, there should be a limit to everything right?
A relationship is something that is meant to be nurtured in other to aid its growth into something beautiful and provide you with the life you dream of atleast, not a spending venture. You need to come off that notion and try to reciprocate because it takes two to tango. Making a relationship last entails hard work and equally being supportive of the each other not just financially but emotionally as well.
Trust me when i say I’ve met some of such relationship and majority dont end well because it gets strined and drained at some point and when both the financial and emtional side is lacking or empty, we know what comes next; break up .
Also, try to get past the idea that you are attractive enough to get whichever person you desire even if your current relationship fades. Beauty fades too you know and anything without a solid foundation collapses.
So don’t become a liability to your partner, become instead that solid block, that stepping stone which should stand the test of time.